Stalker

Sorry, bit I fear posts will be sparse and uninformative for awhile.

I think I've been in denial about my ex's anger and control issues. It's gotten to the point where, despite being divorced, and his trying "really hard" to keep his temper, he calls me with wierd accusations and thinks he has a right to know about what I do during the day - or who I do it with. Obviously, I'm not quite healthy - because half the time I listen, SHOCKED, and just defend myself against strange accussations from a man I am no longer married to or living with.

Worse, I found out today that I am being STALKED. He thought (?) I had left and so kept driving by my house repeatedly (to drop "things" off, osstensibly.) But he kept doing it even after my car was in the driveway...

This, after calling me at work and making accusations about not talking to him just because "there were men he could hear in my apartment behind me."

In shock, I usually defend myself or reply or try to bring him back into reality... but its all just a control game... and when he admitted today (in an attempt to trap me or something, I think?? I'm not sure... perhaps it was shock value) that he was stalking me......

That was just too much.

So... my posts regarding my activities may be a bit less informative in the upcoming weeks.

~Psyche

What a Weekend

Great BBQ chicken & potatoes on the grill, then Baltimore vs. Washington at Camden Yards. Peanut roots for the Nats, I root for the O's. Peanut wins. (I LOVE that stadium!)
Next night, the Fantastic Four (not great, but entertaining,) then, walking to the terminal and saying goodbye to Peanut while she flies off to spend the summer with her dad back in Michigan.
Tears from mom (me) of course.
Next? (Not necessarily in this order) BBQ with an awesome family (thanks for the invite!) great , and grocery shopping (always an adventure.)
I miss Peanut, terribly, but otherwise life is good!

~Me