Stalker
Sorry, bit I fear posts will be sparse and uninformative for awhile. I think I've been in denial about my ex's anger and control issues. It's gotten to the point where, despite being divorced, and his trying "really hard" to keep his temper, he calls me with wierd accusations and thinks he has a right to know about what I do during the day - or who I do it with. Obviously, I'm not quite healthy - because half the time I listen, SHOCKED, and just defend myself against strange accussations from a man I am no longer married to or living with.
Worse, I found out today that I am being STALKED. He thought (?) I had left and so kept driving by my house repeatedly (to drop "things" off, osstensibly.) But he kept doing it even after my car was in the driveway...
This, after calling me at work and making accusations about not talking to him just because "there were men he could hear in my apartment behind me."
In shock, I usually defend myself or reply or try to bring him back into reality... but its all just a control game... and when he admitted today (in an attempt to trap me or something, I think?? I'm not sure... perhaps it was shock value) that he was stalking me......
That was just too much.
So... my posts regarding my activities may be a bit less informative in the upcoming weeks.
~Psyche
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posted by Psyche at 7:59 PM
5 Comments:
another addition to the tag line, "loser". some people will always be tiny, small, scared, and little. one of my favorite expressions, somewhat ironic considering he's a chauvinist prick too, "Never get into a wrestling match with a pig. The only thing that happens is you get dirty, and the pig gets happy."
G -
You should have ditched that creep a hella long time agoi anyway! Didnt he threaten your life or something last year? You are too nice a perso and too caring. Just wantr to see the best in everyone.
If he doesnt stay away from you, you gotta call the police. Im serious!
Ml
Sorry to hear your troubles - didn't he want to be a politician or something? He won't get far if he keeps this going! Were you his first heart break/love? Don't think you can ever forget your first broken heart - I can't. Perhaps we each hope/wish that we can, with enough time, change that outcome and that is what he is trying to do but in a chemically imbalanced sort of way. Regardless his actions are inexcusable Plus doesn't this bloke have a job or something? Perhaps you should tell his parents you'll get the law involved - perhaps his folks can help calibrate his ways.
To end...your postings have been uninformative and sporadic as it was so now even less? Oh well time to discover other blogs then. Best of luck crumpet.
Ta
Hmm...It seems you and I might have more in common than we thought. Even more of a reason to get together...
Ouch! Yes, I suppose , in relflection, that this is true... they have been uninformative and sporatic... Due in part, I suppose, to the fact that I have discovered a great many old friends on "MySpace" and have been posting there more often.
Perhaps I should let this one die, after all....
Thanks for pointing that out (even if it did sting a bit)
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